Pack to the stricter rule from the start
Liquid Limits defaults to the stricter of the two airports. If you pack within that limit on the way out, you'll pass on the way home too.
Bought something abroad? Check before binning it
Sealed duty-free in a STEB bag with the receipt may still pass even at strict airports — as long as the seal is intact and it's within 36 hours. Bigger souvenir bottles need to go in checked luggage.
If you're not checking a bag
Cheap option: buy a hold-luggage allowance just for the return. Cheaper option: post the bottle home from the destination.
If you're connecting
Each transfer security check applies its own airport's rule. STEB liquids over 100ml can be confiscated at re-screening in the US and some Asian hubs.